Many years ago when my wife and I were first married, we read a book called “Ways to Say I Love You to Those You Love the Most.” Written in the early internet days of 1994, and updated in 2006, the book contained simple suggestions for creating closeness in all kinds of relationships, whether with a romantic partner, friends or family.
This winter, consider creative ways to celebrate the season of love with the people you cherish. Here are some ideas:
Go for a drive: Pick a nearby town and find one thing you’d like to explore there – a cafe, museum or boutique store. Use that as a jumping-off point for a days’ worth of adventures.
Take a hike: If you don’t mind the cold, winter is a peaceful time to explore a park or nature preserve. Revisit the trail every few months to observe the change of seasons.
Make a high-tech mix tape: Assemble a playlist for whatever music streaming service you both prefer. Consider a theme, such as songs from the year you met, a favorite musician or musical theatre productions you’ve seen together.
Create a vacation memory box: Whether it was spring break in Clearwater or a road trip to Grandma’s in Sheboygan, we’ve all deepened relationships on our journeys. Fill a box with mementoes for one of your traveling companions, adding in photos, postcards and replica souvenirs.
Give flowers: They’re not just for romance! Fresh-cut bouquets and potted plants show your fondness for friends and family as well.
Do a jigsaw puzzle together: Remember 2020? We may not be in lockdown anymore, but it’s winter, and a great time to get cozy around a shared indoor activity.